Men and women different loving styles are evolution at work. The one difference between men and women is exposed during and after the sex act.

Research

In a new study entitled “Sex Differences in Post-Coital Behaviors in Long –and-Short Term Mating An Evolutionary Perspective,” which will be published in The Journal of Sex Research the different loving styles of men and women showed up.

“The vast Majority of the research on the evolutionary psychology of human reproduction focuses on what’s before and leading up to sexual intercourse,” says Susan Hughes, associate professor of psychology at Albright College in Reading, Pa and the author of the study. “But reproductive strategies don’t end with intercourse; they may influence specific behaviors directly following sex.”

Facts exposed

The message is most people need a manual on how the opposite sex reacts to being close to another human. From an evolutionary stand point, each sex acts according to the programming installed. A woman wants to share and be shown care, men want to reward themselves with a smoke, drink, or continuing sexual activity.

Women place a greater importance on intimacy and bonding with their partner at the time. This means that intimate talking, kissing, cuddling and caressing are important activities. There are reasons for these differences.

Women want to secure the relationship. Women also will use intimate talking and discussing the relationship before intercourse to insure commitment and investment from her partner.

Men have a different prospective when engaging in the sex act. They are there from an evolutionary standpoint to spread the seed to ensure that the species continues.

The Pickle Jar Theory

The man’s job is to impregnate a female; the female’s job is to get a mate to help raise the offspring. The men want the women to crave pickles in other words become pregnant, and the women wants the man to be around to bring the pickles.

We know most men aren’t looking to impregnate a female and take on all the responsibility. However, in the distant past the man may have been long gone from the camp grounds when the female knew something was up.

It is important to be aware of the differences so you can realistically manage your priorities. None of the unexpected actions will baffle you. While a man may want to take flight and you may want to chat and engage him, you do not have to be sticky or needed to get results.

The most important thing for women is to not be timid, carefully prepare for your encounter by engaging in open dialog. Men like to move on, but they also need to be close and bond with another person.

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